Yes I'm black but I never been In a relationship with any race other then a Black man... when I was in school white guys called my hair French fries... or spaghetti head because they where in braids or nickname me ghetto names like Shaniqua all black girls are not ghetto like really and when I mean school I mean a university college... I guess I'm asking this because I want to start dating other races besides blacks... so guys/girls please give me honest reasons... cause now days even black guys don't want to date us 0.0
I would most likely not (because I can't say "wouldn't ever") date a black woman because generally speaking black women are more aggressive, violent, loud, and in your face. I realize all black women aren't ratchet ghetto hoes so I am not saying it wouldn't be an option, but I would make sure to look out for warning signs.
I probably wouldn't date a black man because I'm not attracted to black features. I don't mean the pigment of the skin, but blacks typically have large lips, large noses, more prominent features. That being said... I wouldn't be attracted to a white man or Asian man or latin man who had these features either.
It doesn't have to so with pigment of the skin... because as a pasty white girl, I'd love nothing more than some pigment in my life LOL.
No matter the race, if they had the features I was attracted to and shared my values and life goals... I would date them.
for me race usually isn't a thing i consider but most black women i am not attracted to because of either a very ghetto personality or attitude and I just dont like some of their hair. I do find black women like nicole beharie attractive because i just really like her hair LOL i know pretty dumb
I'm White and I've never dated a black woman, but I don't see why I wouldn't start today, if the girl was fun to talk to, smells decent and is reasonable looking than cool your on the list of potential girlfriends. for me as long as you don't look like the embodiment of a disease and smell like shit, than i don't see why not. but that's just me, there are to many people who will turn a blind eye just because of your skin color. but me i'm color blind in both eyes (Figuratively) so it doesn't matter to me.
The ONLY reason I would have for not dating specifically a black woman is because I was not attracted to her. I don't consider race at all when dating someone so she would be treated like any other girl I was (not) interested in.
I have nothing against dating anyone of any race. It is worth pointing out however that a lot of people are more attracted to people of a certain race, often their own. It's no different to preferring a different hair colour, or finding certain accents sexy.
It depends on the individual girl. With that being said I haven't met a girl who was my type I'm more of a piercied nerdy rocker and haven't met too many black girls that were really compatible with that. But if I met one and liked her than I would go out with her without giving her race a single thought
White men generally have more self respect then white women. A large number of white women (especially online) suffer from internalized racism and many other mental problems. and have no problem making people into a fetish or being one themselves. and will degrade themselves to no end. But still try to play the victim and heroine lol But white guys do date black women, and every other kind. Dont know why people dont notice that. Guess they are not as big of attention whores either.
The cultural barriers are the biggest reason I stay away from black women. That, and the fact that black women tend to value white men less than women of any other race. There's absolutely no reason for me to go around begging black women to give me the time of day when there are plenty of white, Asian, and Latin girls who see the positive aspects in me rather than the negative.
I am not as attracted to dark skin tones. I don't even like it when white girls tan. I am most attracted to the women that are called pale and seen as unattractive for being too light. I also strongly prefer long hair which isn't as common in black women. Although if she wears hair extensions or something it pleases me just as much as if she had naturally long hair.
I'd be afraid of her being a size queen, since I'm below average.
At a glance I'll probably assume we have less in common than I would someone of my own skin color. She will likely assume the same. Other than that, nothing really. If there's sparks there are sparks.
(be very honest)
1. Im usually more attracted to lighter skin and prefer straight hair independent of race. Their facial features, on average appear more masculine to me.
2. I'm put off by getto stereotypes. Despite the reality that stereotypes aren't always true, they would prevent me from asking her out if I didn't already know the girl.
3. Ties into ghetto stereotypes, their reputation for being more slutty. Once again, not always true but I have it in the back of my mind if I don't already know they girl.
4. That they are more likely to be size queens who prefer dicks over 7inches. Nothing wrong with that preference but I don't want to attempt to date a girl when I know I can't satisfy her and don't have what she's looking for. I don't want her to settle for me or lower her preferences, it would only lead to problems down the road.
In all honesty I never saw a reason why people shouldn't be allowed to date outside their race. I also understand, and this has happened to me, that when I (being a white female) dated a black man and we went out publicly I was given cynical looks by almost every person there. So be prepared to have some pretty harsh treatment from others if you date outside your race. Your friends will try to discourage you from it, and his friends won't really think of you as a friend. This is my opinion of course, but it has happened to me before.
I think it's very hard for interracial couples to date, many have stigmas that they should let go of. I can't really say an honest opinion as my only interactions have been in areas with individuals who talk like "imma fu** this hoe" or ni**** ni**** ni****. I don't like that, I think it's rude and disrespectful. If I found a nice guy and he happened to be black that wouldn't be a deal breaker, I'd want to see if our interests and personalities matched up. There's great guys out there no matter the racial or ethnic background. Im sorry they called you mean nicknames.
Honestly! I'm not racist. I just feel as my own race (I'm white) that I should marry a white person! However, I know people who who are white and they marry blacks! Asians who marry whites. I don't see ANYTHING wrong with it. Me personally I wouldn't do it. I've never been attracted to a guy of a different race before.
I'm from a more rural, lower middle class area and most black guys I've met are city guys. I've never dated any white city guys and hardly any suburban guys, either. I just feel so mismatched with them - it seems that our experiences and interests are so different.