I've been trying at this for over a year now. I'm nearly finished college and no girls will go out on a date with me. Whether I make friends with them first or not does not matter. I even asked this one girl out to the movies who said she'd go but made it clear that we were not dating.
Why am I so undesirable? I don't do anything wrong and I treat girls with respect and kindness but I never end up being "their kind of guy" is it just bad luck?
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Ok... I'm all those things too and I have had my share of both worlds. I work hard I'm a good girl I dopnt play around straight to the point. But lizzygirl you say that now. I've seen it I have 25 guys in my family and 5 girls. N honestly what makes this world balence is differences. Good and bad, up and down sweet and sour etc... Even if yall be soulmates very similar but very different. Me as a good girl was with a really good man but we broke up and ill tell you why. He took care of me papmpered treated me as a Queen. N I treated him as my King gave him everything his heart desired. We were toooo perfect to good to be true. Which then brought the "insecure questions " for both of us like " does he really love me, why is this relationship so perfect is he hiding something? N he thought that for me too. Don't forget men get insecure too. So we both started to trust each other less more disrespect words like " so, whatever...tone of voice changes" we basically fell out of love for one another. So to be honest now a days I really don't care for guys, most expect one thin and now a day 2010 society has became such a big bad influence deep down inside even the best woman/man there's a dark side to them as well. When I don't care my phone rings off the hook. When I do care...not even one single phone call...has me askin what's wrong with me... am I lying though?0