Women always looking for confidence, humor, charisma to decide if you worth their time. Then loyalty, honesty, respect becomes a factor. Maybe if ladies looked at these factors more importantly than the previous they would not think all men are assholes
Cause you can't tell who's honest and loyal from the beginning, that takes time. A person can't be loyal to someone they don't know. And you can't tell if they're completely honest if you don't know them well, though if it's obvious they guy is spitting bullshit, girl would get turned off, they know that. Same with respect, unless the girl is super insecure or with daddy issues, she won't tolerate a disrespectful guy.
You can quickly tell if a guy is charismatic, funny, and confident, but it takes time to know if his honest and loyal.
You can't tell who's loyal, honest, and not even respectful until you actually get to know them. Which is unfortunate because then he shows his true colors but then we get labeled as the terrible people for not knowing. If women choose a partner, and he turns out to be an abusive asshole, she gets blamed and so do women for "being stupid and falling for him". If a man chooses a partner, and she turns out to be an abusive asshole, again. It's women to blame because apparently "there are no good women".
"If men get screwed over by women, it reflects badly on all women. If women get screwed over by men, it reflects badly on all women" - @RachelBrigs perfectly summed it up.
Well you can't figure out loyalty until time has passed. It's a judgement call on their character. Respect is something most girls want and if she has high self esteem she'll walk, even if he's funny. We accept the love we think we deserve. If she thinks it's justified getting treated that way she'll overlook disrespect. Honesty is another judgement call. Most level headed people can spot a bullshitter.
All that other shit is what attracts women, but the second group of details is what keeps her.
Same could be said about guys and physical beauty to and certain extent. We all want a hot woman. We think about loyalty second. But what does someone you just met owe you anyways?