I just found out that my boyfriend is addicted to taking pics up girls' skirts without them knowing. Minors included. Wtf do I do? He keeps calling me & I'm so heartbroken. Part of me wants to keep talking to him, but the other part wishes I never met him. What would you guys do?
If anyone is curious what he looks like, google: Andrew Matisoo. He got arrested for the same shit years back, but he told me that he was texting while on his knees looking at hats & didn't do it. Love literally does make you blind cuz I believed him.
I think that this ain't gonna be easy to stop, once he's used and likes to do it it's hard to change. You can talk to him about it, let him know what you think. Then you decide what you'll do, but I wouldn't have many hopes. Perhaps breaking up will be the way.
I was thinking this would be a question about his sexual interests with you and was going to suggest going along with it. But not that. That can land him in jail and carrying around a sexual offender label for life. If he can't stop, you are safer to leave him.
Jesus that is bad, maybe explain how you feel and tell him to stop doing that if he wants to continue seeing you. He could be autistic or psycho or something who knows though. Its hard for them to differentiate right and wrong. Ps I know grammar and punctuation isn't perfect I don't care
if he is pervert and you do not like that you have two options: 1. tell him that you do not like it and you will gonna break up with him if he repeats that 2. if he persists doing it break up with him he is taking minor girls' skirts pictures that means he is a pedophile, it simply means he will go to jail...
I believe it's legal now. I could be wrong, so don't quote me but yeah, I think it's legal to do that, so, if it is, then, is it still immoral? Most immoral things, are illegal (not all). It's supposedly immoral to look up girls skirts like that but then, why was it made legal (again I could be wrong)
Anyone who is dabbling in sexually based offenses that involve children is not someone you want to invest yourself any further in. Make a clean break, and get out now. Don't respond to any of his calls or messages. Get some counseling to help you move past it, and do not blame yourself.
He's probably never gonna change. He's a pervert and perverts always stay perverts. So dump him it's not a big deal why would wanna keep that sort of person around in your life when all he's gonna keep doing is breaking your heart.