I have a boyfriend whom I love very much. Sometime money is tight and I do escort work on the side. He doesn't know of it and I feel extremely guilty. I once asked him if he would mind if I became a stripper he said "no baby as long as your coming back home to me I don't mind." I know it's wrong of me to be doing this but the only real reason I do it is because of money not because I like to or because I'm sexually attracted to the men (definitely not)
Most Helpful Guy
I must admit I would find it very difficult to cope with but if you really need the money and there is no other option financially, I would try to understand.
If my girlfriend raised the issue of becoming or being a stripper/ an escort, I would sit down with her and go through every option. If we reached the conclusion that there was no other option we would just have to move forward but if there was other options, it would be a dealbreaker.1
Most Helpful Girl
Thats definitely wrong, and you shouldn't ruin yourself like that. I'm not talking about your escorting thing, but about the fact that you are hiding things from your boyfriend.
Guilt is just gonna eat you up.
If you're serious about this guy, you definitely don't want to ruin the good relationship because of some extra cash. Maybe you should try to talk about it with him. Don't tell him that you already did it, just talk about the fact that you must do it. That way you can both agree to something.0