I'm on; Tinder, Hot or Not, OkCupid and PoF.
I use them fairly often, and people rarely ever reply, and when they do the conversation results in me doing all the work and them replying. I've spoken to few girls who I know use the apps and they say they get so much attention.
Which leaves guys' chances low unless you look like Brad Pitt.
I've tried asking girls out in person and all I get is a no. Which is why I decided to try online.
Any suggestions to how I can possibly get a date? 😂 I'm out of ideas..
Most Helpful Girl
Try and be a bit different. Don't just put things like 'hey, how are you'. Try and ask them something interesting, bonus points if you can ask them about something they've listed in their profile. So I'll use me as an example. I have guys always ask about my tattoos, which is fine but if someone asked me about my interest in a certain musician or something? It shows they've read my profile, not just clicked on my pics. Try and have an interesting conversation opener. Never start with just hello. Doesn't matter if you're good looking, if you're boring, we loose interest pretty quickly.1
Most Helpful Guy
Forget about those terrible sites. Focus on INTERESTS, not dating. Whatever you're passionate about, make yourself public in that interest group, online or in person. Try meetup. com for interest-based socializing. There are 20-something groups in most cities just for meeting people in a group setting, so that takes a lot of pressure off. I've met a lot of gorgeous girls on Goodreads who I would so hit on if I weren't attached. :) I love nerdy girls who love to read... Just one maybe not so great example, but it's real.0