Would a girl with problems such as OCD and Bipolar disorder be something to diffuse your interest?
Things you would have to deal with regarding her would be intense mood swings, irritability, depression, lack of interest, anxiety, panic attacks, and phases of extreme weirdness and 'mania'- not like excessive spending or reckless behavior, but overly optimistic and wired behavior.
Now factor in if she was on medication. She seems stable and interesting enough... would that still bother you?
Or say you were not aware this girl has these issues... would you want to know? Once you found out, would that be a deal breaker?
...or any other opinions or thoughts on this matter would be appreciated.
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it can defuse interest. men seem more tolerable than women in that department for sure. I have serious depression, and very bad paranoia along with a short temper fuse. I used to be EXTREMELY BAD but I've been learning to conrtol it, for example instead of jumpin to a negative conclusion I consider the positive possibilities that it could be. it effected my realtioship terribly :( my love, was hurt because I couldn't control my temper and compulsive negative thoughts and we aren't together now,but I have been staying friends and been working on my behavior and have had tremendous improvement. to be honest I think its unfair to your partner to be caught up in your issues cause you can't control them, get coping skills,like when I became upset and paranoid I would write down the negatives and positives of the situation and compare what most likely is going on, doing that helps me prevent wrong accusations. its hard to control a mental issue, medications do help, I don't really enjoy them myself because they lower my sex drive and make my eating habits strange. so if you cannot find a medication to help you I would suggest positive outlooks and extreme common sense (its funny how silly you can look from an outer body view) so bottom line, I don't believe a partner should form to your problems, all it did was cause worse problems. tone down what you can and find good techniqes to deal. then a relationship can be good happy and healthy. :)0