I'm really curious as to how many of the ladies have asked out guys. Or girls, whatever is your thing. Guys don't get asked out much, though it is increasing. I mean, lesbians are in relationships, one of them have had to ask the other out, so why can't more straight women put in more work in courting? (besides looking as pretty as possible to attract.)
I guess guys could answer too, how many girls or guys have you asked out?
0 - I have never asked out anyone.
50% (25)38% (20)44% (45)Vote
1 - I have asked out only one person
24% (12)17% (9)20% (21)Vote
2-4 people I've asked out
18% (9)17% (9)17% (18)Vote
5-7 people I've asked out
4% (2)6% (3)5% (5)Vote
8-10 people I've asked out
0% (0)4% (2)2% (2)Vote
11+ I really have some big cojones and have asked out over 11 people
16. rejected by 16. asked out by 5. dated one of the guys who asked me out and who i asked out and was rejected by--misunderstanding:)
i dont think its about courage, its just about not being neurotic. . i think if you're interested you just make a decision to do it. dont think about it.
courage in my opinion, is about things that actually can hurt you, or others... someone saying no, is not a big deal in the great scheme of things its like a piece of ant shit compared to really hard times in life. its the spoiled persons tragedy. if the worst thing in your life is someone said no, you're living a charmed life.
I was asked out by one person, I tried asking out one person who was really not into me at all (that was stupid of me), I asked out a person who kinda was into me initially but we were ridiculously incompatible (that was also stupid of me), then I asked out a person who kinda likes me I guess and I don't think that was a mistake at the time. So I guess I asked out two people and have been asked out by one.
I invited at least 10 people into my life. None of which decided to take up that offer. Kind of a headache I'd iterate for us guys to assume 'responsibility' for this nonsensical game of dating, which is why I suggest women take the initiative for once.
When I want a girlfriend, I ask out about 10 girls *per day*. Get dates set up with several girls, go out with them until I find out who gets along with me best, then break it off with the others. New long-term girlfriend in about 1 or 2 months.
I don't understand people who think asking out one person per year is going to accomplish anything.
I have never asked a guy out but then again, I don't like that whole thing. I want to be friends with a guy first. I don't wanna go on a date with a guy I don't know. I'd much rather build up a friendship first.
My boyfriend and I kind of asked each other out at the same time but I still count that as me asking him out! He may have been the one to introduce himself first but I'm the one who held hands with and kissed him first 😉