At school, I met this one girl who seemed to really like me. We talked for a while, but then her ride came, and I asked for her # so we could text, and she gave it to me. I texted her, but it took 24 hours for her to get back to me. She did apologize & said "sorry I didn't text back". I replied back and she hasn't replied in 36 hours. I don't know what's going on? She seemed to really like me, she couldn't keep a straight face and was giggly a lot of the time. Maybe was it just that I was texting small talk. So what should I do? Should I text her 1 more time? Call her and ask her out? Or back off & wait?
I'm really at a crossroads and can't decide what to do. I don't want to play games, but I'm not 100% sure she's playing games. I'd back off & wait, but then she'll probably forget about me. So if I call, I really don't have anything to lose. what do you think?
Also, her name is Madeleine, but she goes by Maddy for short. If I call, which name should I address her by? I don't really know her that well...
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Thanks for answering my question by the way.
Your problem seems very similar to mine...Except I am not conversing with the guy through text, but through Facebook..haha. I would reply his first text asap, but once I sense that he is replying slowly, I would do the same. I don't like to be the one waiting, so I like to make the guy wait instead. If he doesn't make me wait, then I'd happily reply right away when I get his text. It depends on what kinds of things you texted to her. If it was something that she could easily reply, then I don't understand why she's taking her time. If it was something she could not easily reply to, then she might be thinking of a better response to keep the conversation going...do her texts seem friendly or cold? and during what time of the day is she texting back to you? Her making you wait can either mean..1) she's really busy 2) she's playing games and is making you long for her reply, 3) she doesn't text often anyway.0