Leadership is attractive. I think it's natural to like the alpha (lol, but not the type of guy who calls himself one) Leadership comes in many forms, it could be something as simple as president of a club, event organizer, or charity group. Good works with leadership is more attractive than just leadership though. Like, if a guy was really mean but the leader of a club or frat house, then that wouldn't make him attractive to me. But some people would like power regardless of character. However, men sometimes like women for shallow reasons as well.