So my boyfriend just recently went back home for the holidays. He has not texted me or responded to my text/calls since he has been there. I haven't contacted him that often. I have seen that he has been on snapchat so he has time to spend on his phone. This isn't like him, he always text me usually before I text him. I feel like he is ignoring me and it is annoying that I cannot reach him. Should I leave him and move on?
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I would be kind of upset about that too. I guess it really depends on how much time has passed.
If it's only been a day or two, then it's not really a big deal. Maybe he is busy with his family and doesn't have time to talk, even though he's on snapchat. But if it's going on a week and you haven't heard from him. Then I would be angry.
I would not talk to him or reach out. Let him reach out to you. Maybe that seems like games, but if he isn't talking then he either wants space and is busy so just give him his space.
When he starts talking to you then you can mention that it really hurt you that he didn't contact you at all. I always make time to talk to someone I like no matter what I am doing.
But I would be careful. If he is ignoring you and not giving you the attention you need at all, then I would question the relationship.
I've been in a lot of relationships where the guy just stops caring and stops making an effort. It hurts like hell, but it's not worth it to continue a relationship like that. You deserve someone who is going to put in effort.1
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