I'm in high school, and lately all of my friends have had guys like them, and now all of them have boyfriends. Whenever I see any of them together, I can't help but wonder what is wrong with me that I don't have a boyfriend. Boys don't flirt with me, or say they like me, or add me on snapchat. Some things that give you a general overview about me:
-I'm not a popular party girl, but I'm not a dweeb either. I have a wide circle of friends that are different ages and genders.
-I'm attractive, and have been called pretty and hot by males and females. I have a pretty face and a good body, and I dress relatively well.
-I'm really smart. APs, honors, straight A's, blah blah. However, the boys I usually like and go for are older and smart as well.
-I have a lot of hobbies and I'm really passionate about them. I'm very political and liberal, which is sometimes a bit much for my more conservative town. However, all of my friends are like this.
I'm just sick of being the ONLY one of my friends to not have a boy outwardly interested in them. Even my straight guy friends have had gay boys interested in them!
Why do you think this is? Also general answers would be helpful.
Most Helpful Guy
I noticed that you said boys don't flirt with you, say they like you, etc. From a psychological standpoint, that's what's called "passive talk." In other words, you seem to be focusing on what THEY'RE not doing to you, which means you might not be focusing enough on what YOU'RE doing.
If your friends were being honest, they might admit to giving their current boyfriends some form of encouragement. Chances are, all those boys didn't just wander up out of the blue and ask them out. Maybe you should send a few signals out here and there and see what happens...5
Most Helpful Girl
Those are nothing. You are too quiet or maybe you leave it all to the guys to chat with u.0