You know how everyone feels bad for guys when they pursue and get rejected? Nobody ever seems to talk about girls pursuing and getting rejected, almost like it never happens. So therefore, if you are one of the small percentage of women who pursue and get rejected, does that mean there's something completely wrong with you?
Most Helpful Guy
No, it could just mean the guy is already in a relationship, or doesn't have time for one right then. The same reasons guys get rejected, for the most part.
It's just that most girls have a lot of choices in guys, but most guys don't get many girls chasing them, so a bigger percentage of guys chasing her are going to get rejected, just mathematically.0
Most Helpful Girl
no. its normal. people dont get accepted overtime they ask. women should do it more often and it should;d be discussed in rejection topics. even if there's less women pursue than men doesn't make what they are doing any less real. and rejection sucks as much even more bc they are made to feel like there's something wrong as a woman not just a person.
its be best if rejection topic was discussed about people, not portrayed as a gender exclusive holy realm of dating experience for men. bc it is simply not exemplative of reality.
averages dont do shit for people as far as dealing with real life problems bc they dont represent each person.
women oversee women get rejected. its part of womens world, its part of peoples world.
I encourage women to discuss their experiences more, so others can learn from it.
anyhow yeah women get rejected, it sucks but thats life. when you meet a person you click with, they won't reject you and it'll feel great.
most people who persue deal with A LOT of rejection, unless they are not brave about it.
I've been rejected near 20 times but i dont care about it at all. its past. and none of them matter once i found someone i really care for. or he found me.
its best if you can just chalk it up to life and feel proud of yourself for trying, and try again :)
the more you you try the more opportunities you have of succeeding. it hurts more but it feels better too. :)
please dont feel like your sex is in any way an imperative for going after what you want, even if you dont get it sometimes its not bc you a woman,. or there's something wrong with you. life is full of losses ands gains. its normal.1