If texting is the easiest and/or only method you have for getting to know them?
Bonus question: after how many days of texting do you suggest trying to meet up?
- A few hours in the day for a few days55% (11)38% (6)47% (17)Vote
- Every other day, short conversations40% (8)38% (6)39% (14)Vote
- Once or twice a week5% (1)24% (4)14% (5)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
I have no fixed plan for response - I would let the girl control the pace - I think people my generation not born in the instant constant communication era do not obsess over how often or how long since last text.
I would let it take form of a text conversation, if she sent a text I would respond, I might also ask for a message app because sometimes I like sending longer messages.
When you do you ask for the meet - I would watch for the natural evolution of the communication and if the chemistry was right I might broach the subject, putting a time on it would not be right because the people who text/message 5 times a day will feel they know each other more than those who text/message every other day.
I know it sounds so simple and believe me sometimes I wished I took my own advice - Go with your gut instinct, if it feels right, make a move, it won't kill you if you are knocked back.0
Most Helpful Girl
For me its more just texts here and there during the day, not hours. If im spending hours then im either on the phone or skyping. =]0