Guys and Girls: What are your "we can't date if's"?

Example: We can't date if you're not tall, etc.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • we can't date if there are expectations placed on one of us, but not the other one. A relationship is a partnership, that means equal shares, equal devotion, and equal responsibility.

    also, we can't date if i do not find you sexually attractive. People act like this is cold or cruel or shallow. it is not. Relationships include sex, by their very nature. why would anyone pursue a person they did not actually desire? Besides, I expect this goes both ways. No woman would date me if she did not find me attractive.

    lastly, we can't date if we can not respect each other's views. We do not need to agree. in fact, agreeing on everything is boring. but we have to be able to respect where we disagree. if you're arguing with your bf/gf over, say, a political issue? you either need to learn how to respect each other's different views, or you need to find someone else.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • We can't date if you hunt animals.
    We can't date if you're too fat.
    We can't date if you're too muscular.
    We can't date if you're bald.
    We can't date if you don't like dogs.
    We can't date if you're not sexually open-minded.
    We can't date if you're a racist.
    We can't date if you're a homophobe.

    There's more obvs.

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What Guys Said 25

  • ~... if you're stupid/ignorant or if you don't value education
    ~... if you smoke or are an addict to anything
    ~... if you have lots of tattoos
    ~... if you talk about celebrities all the time
    ~... if you're part of the fashion police
    ~... if you hate all animals
    ~... if you gossip or are, in general, a bitch
    ~... if you're shallow and/or take lots of selfies
    ~... if you hate fantasy, e. g. LotR, ASOIAF, etc
    ~... if you need constant attention
    ~... if you're not willing to take things slowly, intimacy wise
    ~... if you're below 5'4 (this is negotiable, obviously)
    ~... if you're obsessed with technology

    Well, there's a list for you. I hope you like it :)

    Wow, I'm picky.

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  • We can't date if you are:

    1. A smoker
    2. Addict towards a physical substance (e. g drugs, nicotine, alcohol etc.)
    3. Treat my family without respect.
    4. Sexist Feminazi
    5. If you have had wayy to many sexual partners and encounters

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  • 1. Bad hygeine and uncleanliness
    2. Selfish and self centred
    3. Lack interest emotions

    Done. BOOM! 😎

    http://media.giphy.com/media/2nwTda1ewYssE/200.gif

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  • "... you're addicted to drugs."

    "... you hate children."

    "... you're abusive."

    "... you're a filthy person (like a hoarder)."

    "... you spend more than you make on frivolous stuff."

    "... you smoke."
    "... you jeopardize my health." (Like if you keep having stuff around that I'm deathly allergic to)

    "... you're super jealous or clingy." I don't cheat. I don't flirt with women when I'm in relationships. So don't assume I do.

    "... you cheat. "

    "... you try to boss me around and refuse any discussion about it." I dated a girl who would decide certain things (at random) were suddenly "evil" and we weren't to do that any more (No discussion)... Didn't last long, of course.

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  • we can't date if you're closed minded!

    we can't date if you're self obsessed

    tbh these are probably for everyone :3

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  • We can't date if you're smoker, a drug addict, a person with an alcohol problem, sexist, racist, religious (spiritual would be fine), very short, traditional, conservative, right-wing, not remotely smart, very extroverted, close-minded, much younger or older than me, an attention seeker, I could go on.

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  • If you want "a real man", because I don't really know what that means, but I don't want to know either.

    Also if you're a fan of 50 Shades of Grey, or if you smoke, or if you drink yourself wasted regularly, or if you use any other heavier or illegal drugs.

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  • *... if she doesn't want to have birthed children with me.

    *... if she isn't comfortable (not just "tolerant of") being around a large group of black people, especially a group of black men.

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    The second one above sounds so unnecessary, and I wish it wasn't necessary. But I have seen women date a black guy, and sense her having angst and discomfort around being around his black family members and black friends.

    I refuse to deal with that.

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  • If you're taller than me, I probably won't end up crushing on you.

    Also, if you drink a lot/smoke/do drugs.

    If you're just trashy, but again, I won't end up crushing in the first place.

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  • we can't date if you don't have a vagina... lol...
    shaved head
    any piercings other then in your ear

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  • "If you can't really love me" 😶...

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  • You're not smart
    You're very liberal
    You're not white
    You're not Christian

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  • We can't date if you support Trump, sorry

    We can't date if all you like is country music.

    We can't date if you're trying to conquer my family's home country xD sorry Russia

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  • If you look greater, Then a 2/10.

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  • if there's no mutual interest

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  • We cannot date if you are not someone I want to deal with.

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  • We can't date if you're a socialist.

    We can't date if you weight more then me.

    Not to many requirements but pretty difficult at this age group lol

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  • Drugs, smoking, excessive alcohol use are deal breakers.

    She should also try to stay in shape,

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  • If she supports right-wing politicians like Donald Trump.
    Can't hold an interesting conversation.

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  • If you're not honest,
    Really selfish
    Not open minded
    "Hate" my flaws

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  • if too skinny or too short

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  • "... you have an entitled attitude like so many women today"

    "... you don't love children and don't want a family"

    "... you won't stay home with our children when they are young"

    "... you smoke"

    "... don't love the outdoors"

    "... you're a feminist"

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  • We can't date if you don't want to have sex with me.

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  • If you say nothing to me at all

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  • black
    fat
    ugly
    prostitute
    i would prefer girls with small boobs, tight pussy,
    tallnes and hairy doesn't matter for me
    And you?

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What Girls Said 20

  • We can't date if you are hood, ghetto, or use slang excessively.

    We can't date if you are abusive towards me.

    We can't date if you cheat on me with another girl.

    We can't date if you are shorter than me (5'0). (Nothing personal).

    We can't date if you are extremely overweight or skinny. (Nothing personal).

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  • He's really racist against other people.
    If he's rude to other people.
    If he's cocky.
    If he treats me bad on the first date, that's a sign.
    If he has no humor.
    If he hates pets and refuses to live with any.
    If he hits animals.
    If he's hot headed and gets into fights easily.
    If he's really vain and/or shallow.

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  • We can't date if you smoke, do drugs, or hate my family.

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  • If your an asshole
    Racist/ sexist
    Went out with one of my girls and hurt her
    Aren't polite to my parents
    You're stunning by the way girl

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  • We can't date if you smoke.

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  • WE CAN'T DATE IF YOU DON'T LIKE ME!

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  • well:
    -you aren't a christian
    -you makeup shame
    -you have ever cheated/led someone on (unless your behavior shows a significant change of heart)
    -you don't support self-expression
    -you're abusive (obvs)
    -you're judgmental
    - you don't have depth
    -you aren't at least moderately open minded
    ... there's a million more but i'll stop there for now.

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  • We simply won't date if you:
    Smoke, drink, self centered, disrespectful, insecure sexist/abusive, racist, negative minded, too muscular, shorter than 5'6, and last but not least if you don't have a good sense of humor!

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  • We can't date if:
    You smoke
    You're an atheist
    You're very shallow
    You're a druggie
    You're aggressive
    You have anger issues

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  • we can't date if you are a ignorant asshole who hate on people that are different from you

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  • We can't date if:
    You do drugs/drink/smoke
    You have bad hygiene
    You can't respect my beliefs
    You're a racist/sexist/homophobic etc
    You're a jerk in general

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  • We can't date if;
    - you don't like sex often
    - you are a substance abuser
    - don't have drive and ambition
    - can't be honest
    - can't be loving and caring.

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  • if you smoke

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  • we can't date if you are a gangsta we can't date if you aren't tall if you don't have dreams and plans to live out your dreams. we can't date if you don't love yourself. we can't date if you are an ass hole.

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  • We can't date if:
    -you don't believe in God
    -you demote how I look constantly
    -you guilt trip me

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  • Drug addict, thief , disrespectful

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  • We can't date if you're serious, conceited, disrespectful, abusive, a liar, or pessimistic.

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  • If you don't have a stable job, a car and a great personality.

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  • We can't date if ur not my religion
    We can't date if u make me feel bad
    We can't date if we have already dated

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  • We can't date if (the guy is):

    racist
    sexist
    obnoxious & rude
    mean-spirited
    abusive (verbal and physical)
    a smoker
    a heavy drinker

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