Guys mostly, but women can answer as well, how many times have you been asked out?

I did a question asking about how many people have women (and men) asked out. I'd like to hear how many times in your life have you been asked out.

  • 0 - I have never been asked out
    40% (6)37% (15)38% (21)Vote
  • 1 - I've only been asked out once
    20% (3)29% (12)27% (15)Vote
  • 2-4 times
    13% (2)15% (6)14% (8)Vote
  • 5-7 times
    7% (1)10% (4)9% (5)Vote
  • 8-10 times
    0% (0)2% (1)2% (1)Vote
  • 11+ people have asked me out
    20% (3)7% (3)10% (6)Vote
And you are? I'm a GirlI'm a Guy

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I think I have been asked out by 5 girls (2 of those resulted in relationships), and I have asked one girl out (and got rejected).

    But all this happened ages ago. I have been single for 5 years now, and I haven't asked anyone out or been asked out during this period.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I know guys not join this site who have been asked out more than 11 times, so im voting for them :)

    I've also asked guys out more than 11, but i dont usually ask one person out more than once, unless there's a communication problem.

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What Guys Said 20

  • ZERO & I wonder why. I know guys around me who are generally worst (looks, attitude, height, smell, mannerism) than me in most areas been asked out. Wtf yo! Mother nature, fck you bitch. Why are u punishing me with 22 years of solitude till this day? I've been a good boy and have not committed a crime. Pleaee send a girl already to ask me out so I don't feel like shit.

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    • You better be hearing this mother nature, or I'll start burning your trees to hurt you physically.

  • I haven't really kept track, but thinking back on it now, I would say 8 or 9 times.

    It's not like I've got women chasing after me, or anything, but it has happened.

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    • You have been asked out 8 or 9 times? How? Are you just super good looking?

    • Well, I'm not ugly, by any means, but I certainly don't think I'm hot, either.

      According to the women that know me, however, I am very charming, supposedly. I don't know if that's why, but I'll take what I can get, lol.

      I bank more on my personality, than looks alone.

  • girls have never approached me for any kind of relationship, i'm also terrible at noticing when a girl is trying to give off signals, so i'm hopeless >.<

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    • Have you asked women out?

    • yes, its either they look at me and walk away without saying anything or say just some abusive thing like "fuck off". perfect for my confidence and anxiety >.< i have never gone past the stage of looks, i just hope that's only girls in my aria and i don't go for the self obsessed girls either.

    • Usually if the girl is interested they will give you the eye contact and maintain it, while smiling. I mean that's me but I know some girls who are like this too.

  • I have been asked out by women, but I don't know how many. It's not because it's some staggering amount. It's just I'm old and senile. ;)

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  • 3-4 times that I can remember

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  • Just a couple times, but women send nonverbal signals that are very helpful in approaching, so I think of it as both of us coming halfway.

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  • If you mean for a love date, never... I've been asked out once for a "friendship date" with a girl. She was a student pilot at the time, just like me 11 years ago :D

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  • Don't remember how many but plenty.
    I'm not sure if you want to know but I always loved being asked out. Of course it's a little bit of an ego boost but most of all because I love girls that take initiative and can express what they want.

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  • If I have that I can recall, maybe only once in my 6 years of adulthood. Other than that I have never been offered by another woman a time out together.

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  • Never been asked out. In hindsight though, many women have given me the signals which I didn't act on. I ask women out or as I say "organise shit". If I don't do it, it doesn't happen.

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  • 1 time. 5 years ago lol

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  • ZERO + Infinity loop

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  • I have never been asked out before. It would be interesting though. That would make my day since I have never dated anyone at all so far.

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  • Not in years. Probably around 6-7 times between high school and mid twenties.

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  • A big fat zero.

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  • Never hahaha

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  • I've never been asked out

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  • So sad. ¡ _____ ¡

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    • You're 13 lol

    • Well yeah, i kinda feel like some of the girls at my school are, well i dont know the right term. But they go through so many guys so quickly. Its crazy. I just want to find one girl and have dedication to her.

  • More than 11

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  • A couple times. I always make sure I hurt a girl when she tries. Because equality.

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    • Women don't hurt guys on purpose -_____-

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    • I can't tell which is which -- and I don't care to. Women don't wait to see if a guy is nice or not before acting like a bitch. Why shouldn't I treat women the same way?

    • As you said it yourself, not all women are like this. That's why.

What Girls Said 1

  • I have never been asked out, but hey, I'm young, it's not that bad, I guess. 😄

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