so rn he's with his family for the holidays and I was feeling alone so went to a party where I got really drunk. I don't remember much of the night expect at some point I passed out and when I woke up some guy was getting touchy with me I didn't have the energy to say no and it felt okay plus I knew if I moved I was gonna throw up then we had sex. is it still completely cheating? if your partner told you this happened to them what would be your reaction?
okay I know fully understand that I cheated and will tell him as soon as he gets back. please stop saying I'm a whore I feel like shit already
That has got to be one of the most feeble excuses for cheating. You didn't have the engergy to say no but have engergy for sex. You should feel like shit, you can't be expect people to have an ounce of sympathy.
i would be furious if my girlfriend or wife told me she felt lonely so she went to a party and ended up with some guy. i wouldn't trust that i could ever leave her alone because when she gets lonely she...
It's good that you are being honest with him, personally yeah I would dump you because of that, and if he does dump you, you can't really blame. Just learn from this mistake and don't do it in the future.
Haha, phew close call, you almost cheated on- okay. I can't do this. Are you serious?
Look if some woman who isn't my SO comes pawing at my pants, I will beat her off of me until the point I pass out. Even if I break my leg. And you know what? I expect that same level of dedication from my SO.
if my girlfriend told me that i would ask who it was and then beat the shit out of them for taking advantage of a drunk girl. if you were a feminazi you would call that rape even tho you say "it felt okay" If you were drunk i dont think its cheating because is not like you said to yourself "today ama get drunk and get some dick" unless that is what you said then yes that is cheating
This is cheating 100%. The guy who started this while you were passed out was comitting sexual assult at best and may have been rape had you not woken up. But you didn't say no and you even admit to enjoying it. That is cheating.
Let sleeping dogs lie now, sweetie. No need to go barking up a wrong tree With... Tell him a soon as he gets back. It's the holidays so why ruin things by putting yourself in the dog house even More... You feel bad enough as it is and you are feeling bad and sad. I trust it will not happen again, you saw what you did wrong, so move on from it. He who is without sin cast your first Stone.. You are Not alone. Good luck and Merry Christmas.. Go my child and sin no more. xx
That's borderline rape, but you described not minding how it felt, so I can't say for sure. If you essentially consented to it and didn't mind how it felt, yes, it's cheating. If you didn't enjoy it period and didn't consent to it then it would just be rape.
It's cheating, you got drunk when you had the option not to. Some dude took advantage, you had the opportunity to leave but didn't, saying it felt "okay" is pretty much saying you didn't have a problem with it happening. If you didn't want it to happen you would have had the energy to stop it. I can't imagine you were a limp noodle laying there while said person did whatever. You gotta be upfront and honest to your boyfriend, you'll probably breakup but honesty can hurt.
Honestly, I'd say yeah. If my partner had told me this, I would've argued 'why did you get into that state? You can still remember having sex though?'. Then again, I'm not your boyfriend so he might accept it as an honest mistake!:)
Well how come you didn't puke when you were fucking? Well since you said that if you moved you would throw up, and ducking does take a lot of moving dear. Ohh and yes that is cheating, if you were so ok giving it to another guy I can only guess there was never real commitment on your side in your relationship.