Confidence can make a pretty good difference. It typically makes a guy more attractive, because typically a guy who is confident knows what he wants. And is not afraid to tell what he thinks, & he thinks that he is good looking. Which is a pretty good quality because sometimes being insecure can be a turn off. But guys who are completely arrogant, are a HUGE turn off! No one wants someone who thinks that they are better than anyone else and can get any girl at any time and hook up with someone at any time either.
I don't plan on dating a man with no confidence ever again. My ex was extremely clingy, whiny, possessive, and abusive whenever I mentioned a handsome celebrity or when I told him I'd be going out with friends/family. It was the worst two years of my life trying to build his confidence. If anything it gave him power over me to guilt me into taking care of his helpless self. This no confidence stopped being cute after the first month, after which it simply got tiring and draining. = 3=;; Excuse me, I'm bitter when it comes to this topic.