Maybe I go about hitting on girls all wrong, but i'm tired of listening to guys talk about how they want to bang this girl and hit on this girl and hookup with her tonight. Man I just want to compliment a girl, talk with her for 10 minutes or so and get to know her a little bit and then get her number and just take things slowly and see what happens. You know like take her on dates and learn about one another. I wouldn't have sex with a girl unless i've known her for a couple months or so. I always hear about how such and such met and they had sex 5 days later and now 6 months later they're married. Apparantly it seems a bit rare now to go about it the way I do.
How do you show girls you're not just another guy?
What Girls Said 1
Maybe try to make the approach more personal? Like find something you have in common with them and comment on it (i. e. "You're wearing a Batman shirt? I think Batman is awesome!"). Just saying they're hot sounds like you're asking to hookup.1
What Guys Said 1
Well I mean there are billions of men so we all are just another guy0