I'm of Asian descent so I get a lot of messages from Asian (and other guys), but I'm only attracted to white guys. If I don't respond to their messages, I often get abused with all sorts of names. If i respond and let them down nicely e. g. "thanks for your interest, but you're not quite my type", they start debating with me, trying to convince me that I'm their type or get frustrated and abuse me.
To avoid all this and so that I dont' mislead others, is it fair to write in my profile description that I'm looking specifically for a white guy?
Most Helpful Guy
NO, it's a preference so don't worry about that.
I understand your reasoning. However I'm not sure if it's going to have the effect you desire. It may filter out some guys but I think most guys will try anyway or maybe not even read it. And the ones that do read it may send you annoying messages anyway but now in a different context.
Also a white guy reading that might think you only want him because he is white which can ruin your chances. So if you are going to write that down make sure you use the right words.0
Most Helpful Girl
i've had the exact same problem with men of other races who i tend to not find attractive. i don't rule them out but if i'm not attracted i'm not attracted. since i was 12 i've only been attracted to japanese and korean boys. i am so tired of other races of men trying to tell me how much better they (and their race in general) are as if it's a fact? why do they feel the need to talk bad about the men i like? i've always been attracted to certain facial features and body types and when i see my type i immediately know. it's a matter of preference.1