Most Helpful Guy
Be a higher "number" than the guy on the attractiveness scale, confront him on his pornography usage, and make sure he lives for something higher than himself.
My last girlfriend was the first person to confront me on pornography after talking about how it destroyed her marriage. I was shattered to confess it even though I had accepted Christ three years earlier.
Anyways, the relationship ended up being rough and failing, but two weeks later I never thought of or really 'looked' at another woman while we were together. It was only while apart could I even consider someone else. I'm three years stronger on having walked away from pornography, though.
But, yes, it is possible to focus on one woman. I've done it. I won't settle until I have it again.1
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Most Helpful Girl
Yeah, but why would you want one?
My man is a MAN.
What makes him a man?
He has PASSIONS... and he CONTROLS them.
He has a fierce anger always burning just below the surface. (I've seen him fight... ooh girl.) But he controls it perfectly. 15 years together, and not once has he ever hade me feel like he'd use his anger to do anything other than protect me.
Same with his drive. What can I say? Omg horrors, a man who likes sex! Oh noes, a man who loves women!
He's ALWAYS looking at women, and I know how his mind works. And when I say women, I mean just about all of 'em. He'd think as many nasty things about the 55-year-old matron at the dry cleaners as he would about some 19-year-old in a bikini. Knowing him, probably more. smh.
But, again, he keeps it under control.
And he brings it home.
And he takes all those nasty, nasty things he wants to do to all those women he looks at, and he does them all to his (not so) sweet, (not so) innocent (not so) little wife.
Not a bad deal, if you ask me.
And besides, I rarely go an hour or two without flirting, myself, anyway... mostly because I'm NOT sexually frustrated. If I were sexually frustrated I would have zero flirtability.2