I posted this already but I wanted to create a poll. I've been single for a while and feel like I may just be too unattractive to find someone who prefers to be with me over all other women. Do you think that everyone, no matter how unappealing, will/can find "the one"?
- Everyone will find someoneVote A
- Some people are just too unattractive to be lovedVote B
Most Helpful Guy
Sorry to be blunt, but no, there isn't a person for everyone. like a comedian once said. "No one f*cks down" so if you have the slightest piece of self confidence you don't go for the ugliest and unattractive person you meet/see. People like to be with others they find attractive. After you get past that stage, character/personality comes next. and i know i know most of you girls think that there's "someone for everyone" but thats just lying to yourself and please o please dont tell others that bullshit. You are giving them false hope, and thats way worse than just telling them thats some people are just meant to stay alone. You know what, being single ain't to bad either. have a great Christmas and enjoy the holidays ;)0
Most Helpful Girl
As I commented on another user's comment, I do feel there's someone for everyone. Call it being stupid or whatever, but there's too many people in the world to make a sweeping generalization that not everyone will find love or someone attracted to them.
You can be unattractive (by conventional standards) or have a shitty personality and you'd still find someone.
Ignore the condescending tone, but the messages are true.