i met a guy online- ok he seemed pretty nice at first. We went to dinner.. he said in a year or so he's going to med school. He had an ok job. Then, we were hanging out after and he began saying weird things. First he started talking about how he was dominant.. and that he likes to be in control. He made some strange comments about how women he had been with were 'toys' and said 'relationships are like a chess game, you dont want to go in for the KILL." He also said he was a mason and by the time he was done I was scared. He said some women say "youre not going to kill me are you" and thats what i felt like saying. He said some other things I can't remember... i was hoping he'd leave and he finally did.
he then asked me if i wanted to hang out the next day--he said we could go 'hiking' on some trail nearby--its a deserted trail where some people have been killed there before. I said sure.. but of course didn't plan on talking to him again. He has been texting me since- even asked to go on a 'trail' near him... at night. I said why do u keep wanting to go on a trail? oddly, the ONLY time guys talk to me again are if they want 'sex' or in this case maybe theyre crazy. He seems to be desperate to meet up
with me again- this is rare to never happens.
another guy- i met up with him- he was travelling. He came to my city i agreed to have dinner with him. after dinner we went out then to his hotel room. He didn't make a move- i had to FINALLY make a move after 2 hours. He said yes right away- we had a semi fun time and he said we'd do ecstasy the next day. I had never done it before. He said "what are u doing tomorrow" and i was supposed to come back. I left while he was sleeping. He only texted me twice next day then didn't reply, after i texted him. he did say that he has the girl come to him--sort of, and talked about women jumping him. He was playing games didn't text me till 2 days later saying "come now" at 4am... was he playing games?
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First guy, You need to avoid at all costs. A relationship to him is some sort of war. I understand dating in some occasions can be a battlefield because that's when partners' roles get assigned, who gets to be the mustache... etc but after the relationship starts that whole battlefield should be over already. And he's a mason, now if you don't know what that is, you might want to check it out. You're dealing with a guy FULL OF pride and ego, if you're not a mason like him, you're just a little shit in his point of view. I don't know about him being "dangerous" but, I know you might not want to date someone like that.
Second guy apparently is just an amateur gamer. He got you in his hotel room and never made a move? If he was an experienced gamed, he would have known that you went to that hotel room expecting him to make a move. I don't think that one is dangerous per se but, he's not a good option either.1
Most Helpful Girl
I would cut all contact and avoid him at all costs. It's better to be safe than sorry. You have to be twice as vilgilant when you have contact with guys online. The internet is a psychopaths hunting ground. They seek out vulnerable impressionable women as their prey. He may not be a psychopath but he is displaying some traits of someone with some sort of psychosis. .1