me and my boyfriend are 12 years different but whenever I tell someone they make a big deal out of it. My only problem is when we go out I don't like people looking at us weird cuz he is older then me
Most Helpful Guy
Depends on the ages and the people. There's no right or wrong answer here. If you're happy together, great. But yeah, you're gonna have to get over the "people looking at you" deal. They're gonna look. He's 31 and you're 19. They'll be looking for a while.1
Most Helpful Girl
I think is not a problem. :)
My ex is elder than me 10 years old, but he may keep good skin, so even if he looks elder, but still look normal when we go out.
Actually the most important point is how you feel and he really love you, the life is yours, it's not other people's life.
Nowadays lots of old man with young lady be couple, lots of people can understand this kind of couple, because girls like mature man.2