Seriously, I am 21 and never been in a relationship. With weight loss and even when I was heavier, guys do not approach me or show interest in me. When I was in hs, a few guys asked me out but I rejected them because I always feel as if I am too fat for a guy and not worthy of love. Even with the weight loss, I feel ugly, regardless of the compliments I receive from others. Am I that ugly to guys? I see guys look at me all the time but they never ask me out or approach me. Like what the hell? I wish I was not alive sometimes with the way I feel 🖕🏻
It's not enough to get noticed, the guy has to get a "go ahead" signal from you. Such as a smile or something else telling him it's okay to say hi. If the guys don't think that you are interested they won't approach.
You rejected guys in hs. Guys give you compliment now and you still consider yourself ugly. It is YOUR opinion, not theirs. Yet you keep asking if you are that ugly to guys. Now you are not. You are only ugly to yourself. With that attitude no guy will want to be around you.
to get a vf you need to be selfconfident hich you are not. guys wanted to date you before you lost weight, so you should look even better now. no need to be insecure, go ahead and approach a guy if they look at you, wave or wink^^