I don't mean to cause a major fuss over this, but i'm a nice person and i see many time that girls choose guys who hurt them in the end and then the next guy has to break downt hat bearrier. Just wondering, that is all.
Probably because the 'nice' guy isn't actually all that nice, or she's not interested in him, or she has no idea that he's interested in her and so just goes with the guy she knows wants at least some kind of interaction with her.
It's not he fact that we purposely choose a guy that will hurt us. It's that most of the guys who end up hurting us aproach us first, whereas the nice is usually timid and never makes the move fast enough. Of corse there's also the fact that we don't always know their a jerk, they all come off as nice at first.