They always say they have a boyfriend or other things. I can tell it's because I am black. I thought they liked our big d*cks and superior swag?
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe you're not in the right city/location? Where do you live? I'm black, but I've known plenty of white girls who date black guys, and I see them all over the place in the cities I've lived in. I've met so many white women who... I don't know, I guess they're trying to relate to me or "be down" and mention they love black guys for xyz reasons... like sex. A girl in high school hated me for a while because I told her she was racist. In senior year World Lit, she told me she loves black guys because "their lips feel like pillows." It wasn't totally random, but more or less. One of my good friends from college loved dating black men. We got a kick out of it - she was the white girl who loved non-white guys, and I was the black girl who loved non-black guys. She dated a black guy for 5 years, and she continues to date black (and other) guys.
I'm really into interracial dating, and I can relate to sometimes feeling like someone doesn't like you because of your race, but I think if you position yourself in very diverse environments where you see lots of interracial dating (a lot of major cities, for example), and you are actively social and getting involved with other people over common interests, its more likely that you'll find someone. That approach can work better than hitting on random women, and you can nurture some kind of relationship with them. Make yourself irresistible based on your personality and how you make them feel. You don't have to reduce yourself and your entire presence to stereotypes. (Although, as I said, the stereotypes on BBC do work. lol) Be an interesting person. You could travel. Being an American abroad makes you kind of interesting to a lot of people by default. (If you are American. I'm assuming.)
You really shouldn't be pining after someone who isn't interested in you, especially if its only because of your race. Pointless battle and you should already know that plenty of white women like black men. Just find them. Good luck!0
Most Helpful Guy
That a white parents worst nightmare. Their daughter dating a black guy5