He is an ex and he broke up with you. He doesn't want you in his life You tried and it didn't work. If you do manage to reconcile, you will rediscover the reasons why you broke up and it will happen again. When you break up, you cease contact, you learn your lessons and lick your wounds, and then you move on.
in some situations someone has to swallow their pride and take action!!! i wish the guy i really like would just knock at my door and ask for me back... maybe guys wouldn't like that but I think in some cases it might be needed so someone has to take a leap!
You can't change a guy. I keep telling you girls that, but some don't listen. Nothing can change him, not even sex. There is a reason you broke up with him or he broke up with you. Why do you want to be back with him? What was he like?
I don't know, are you trying to beat a dead horse? Are you trying to rehash old arguments? Are you trying to force someone to feel in love with you when they clearly aren't? Are you trying to re-live a miserable experience?
You don't "win" back an ex. If they really love you, they will come back on their own.
It's not a hollywood movie where you can just show up on someone's doorstep and they will eagerly take you back and you'll live happily ever after. They might not even open the door for you.
The best thing to do is be the best version of yourself and stop making poor decisions based on some fantasy you have in your head. Try being their friend FIRST, and if it's meant to be, it will go from there. You can't just show up and "force" someone to fall in love with you. They have to build those feelings on their own.
Showing up to an exes house is invasive and disrespectful. If you want to get back together, and you believe that it is possible for you to "win" that person back, you have to do it on THEIR terms. Text or call them to ask if you can meet up to talk about things. If they are unwilling to meet up with you, you have to respect that. But showing up at their home uninvited? That's not OK.
i think its a good idea to do whatever you want-within the law and not including anything mean spirited- and learn after the fact if its something you think you should have done. no one here knows your relationship but i think doing that is brave. as for not putting yourself in a vulnerable position, well, a little too late. thats what life is all about from when you arrive naked and someone slaps you.
and i dont know what anyone is talking about that you can't change a guy. yapper not changing him you're making an effort bc you want to. its still his decision.
Showing up at someone's house uninvited is immature... and it's trespassing which is illegal. If I were you, I would not try to get back with an ex. You broke up for a reason and it could end up causing more harm. If you really want to reconcile with an ex, there are better ways to do it. You would have to do it on their terms because if you don't, they could press charges for harassment. Try calling them and ask if they want to meet up to talk things out. If they don't want to see you, then respect that.
Girl you don't need him there's plenty of fish in the damn see why himm geez
www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/.../ Maybe that will help? I recommend ignoring him and going no contact it works %100 of this time like magic I promise in little time he will be begging you back instead of the other way around
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