Is it only fair to tell my lovers wife that he's seeing me because he's too scared to?

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his wife has been through it all before, he went on a trip and well got bait bored so he did a bit of exploring with other women and she found put and she's still with him now!

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Most Helpful Guy

  • No. It's not even REMOTELY fair. There's nothing "fair" about an affair. It's insanely selfish and incredibly unfair.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Yeah, tell the wife he's a cheating prick and enjoy watching the marriage go down in flames. But remember, you were part of the reason.

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What Guys Said 3

  • Well you already did one thing wrong and the only immediate way to repent would be to do the humane thing and tell the wife. She deserves to know. Nobody deserves to stay and waste one more minute of their life with a cheater.

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  • If you're really under 18, then first you should be telling the cops.

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  • she will punch you and he will dump you

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What Girls Said 10

  • he is cheating on her.. yeah you should tell her.. that this guy is such a coward and she deserves better..

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  • Firstly you should stop seeing said guy. He's married. You're a homewrecker. Would you like someone else stealing away your partner someday? I'm sure you won't. So don't do onto others as you wouldn't like being done to you.

    Secondly yes you should absolutely tell her.

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  • You need to stop seeing the guy immediately! If you only want to tell the wife so you can have him to yourself, then get your head examined. If that's not the case, tell the wife her husband is a pedophile-adulterer. then pick a single guy next time around. Karma is a bitch.

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  • No... and yes. Watch the other woman with Cameron Diaz

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  • Wow. So you're under 18 huh?

    So adultery AND statutory rape. Maybe even child molestation too?

    Yeah... tell her. You'll be doing her and yourself a favor.

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  • Stop seeing him, tell her that it happened. You owe it to her to give her the knowledge that her husband is stabbing her in the back again. Be prepared to get the brunt of her anger.

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  • Cheaters are cheaters. Stay clear of married men unless someday you're cool with some woman sleeping with your man. Karma is a bitch that way.

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  • No, it's their marriage and if he's scared to tell her you're in the picture, it's because he doesn't plan on kicking her out anytime soon.

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  • It's his responsibility to do so.

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  • Well, he'll no longer be your lover if you tell his wife so maybe you'll be doing all of you a favor if you do tell.

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