I believe flirting with other women and checking them out while you're dating is considered cheating. I believe guys are supposed to make the first move when it comes to approaching a woman. They should pay for the first date and of course worst case scenario, a woman can help pay for the dinner bill. I've never been in a relationship or had sex. I'm 21 by the way. Am I too uptight? People tell me I am.
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Most Helpful Guy
I don't check out girls consciously, it just fucking happens. If the guy really wanted to be with someone else then why would they even be dating you? I agree that flirting is cheating unless its completely innocent, as in just joking around, but if you're gonna get mad at a guy because they looked at another girl then you have some issues you need to work on.2
Most Helpful Girl
Oh god yeah, you're wound up tighter than a toy solider in the hands of a jittery toddler.
The first part I can see somewhat, but I wouldn't call it cheating, I would call it inappropriate. I mean, given that logic, no woman can even look at a hot actor without cheating. We're just wired to be appealed by attractive people.
The whole "men make the first move" shit makes no sense to me because there's no law nor unavoidable biological consequence in men NOT making the first move. It's 2016, guys aren't all on board with having you chase you down like you're pray. Also, you're not an item so a man is not obligated to buy your affections with dates. You're a big girl, you can take care of half of the bill. You're not a child.
Women are not babies that need coddling and need everything done for them: they don't need to helplessly be chased and paid for. Sure if you prefer a guy to initiate but using your gender as your reasoning is a petty excuse that few people buy into anymore. I say lighten up and get with the times at least a little more.0