Before anyone suggests it, this wouldn't be for sex it would purely be just to chill and maybe talk a little. I'm a virgin anyway.
Lately we have been chatting a little/flirting too. He's always up for flirting with me but he's very guarded with his feelings (naturally) due to us being broken up. We never ended on good terms.
I know people will hit back at me with 'but you broke up' I know that. It was actually my fault we broke up anyway due to fear of commiting/not being ready.
he's 30 and I'm 22, and at his age he does want to settle down (at least, he did). And I mean, he wanted to go steady with me. I guess that scared me a bit and I was always on the fence with him. After a lot of thought though, I really miss him and have my regrets.
His is mum and dad passed away three years ago and he lives with a severely depressed brother (and I mean, very depressed). Family life is pretty broken for him, and I guess I still care about him. Christmas has just passed and he reached out to me that day... and it just made me think of everything.
Its wonder we're actually talking now, he was so, so angry with me when things broke down.
I'm not sure if he'd actually come over or not, but is it worth a try? I really worry about him and still care a lot for him.
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well, but what are u expecting from this?
friends? (if this is the case, try not to give him false hope. b clear that what u want is friendship)
or getting back together? (because if this is the case, then u need to b sure that u are ready for commitement this time, in order not to hurt him)1
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