I am in college and I met this guy the first couple weeks of school. Things got really heated quickly and we started hooking up every weekend and sometimes during the week too. During school we used to text and send snapchats almost every day, and I was never afraid that he was hooking up with other girls because he was always hooking up with me. He has told me he likes me and has even said that I was out of his league. I have met all his friends and they have asked me what I thought about him and asked what I thought of the relationship. He basically treated me like we were dating. However, we have both agreed we don't want to be in a committed relationship right now. After we'd have sex we'd always cuddle and he'd walk me home the next morning and kiss me goodbye. One time when we were drunk he said he didn't want to hook up with anyone else but me. But now that were home for winter break things have changed. The first week of break we talked a little but now he doesn't text/snapchat me at all. I even think he blocked me from viewing his snapchat story. I even sent him a drunk snapchat and he ignored it. Its been a week and I haven't heard from him. He just turned 21 so I know he is at the bars and plans on going when we get back to school, but I can't because I'm only 20. Is this his way of ending it with me? Or am I just being a psycho? I'm lowkey really sad and don't know what to do when I go back to school.
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It could be his way of ending it yes, if you see a drastic change and he's ignoring your snaps then it could just be his way of getting less attached. It has nothing to do with you he just may realized he 1. either caught feelings and wants to distance himself or 2. Doesn't want to proceed with the friends with benefits any further. Ofcourse you're going to be sad because you literally have no explanation0