I've Been seeing this guy he's older than me I'm 27 he's 36 he's never had proper serious relationships says he doesn't think he likes me enough to give me what I want. He wants to hangout as friends and that's how he ends up liking a girl but doesn't want me to hold out for it. He says he definitely likes me as more than a friend though. What should I do?
He doesn't like me enough?
What Guys Said 1
I think you should let this one go. I don't think you'll find what you want from him. If he's thirty six and has such difficulties with commitment, then he probably won't to you. Sorry.0
What Girls Said 2
Abort mission. That is some selfish, indecisive bullshit if I ever heard it:
"I don't like you enough to date you, but hang around so no one else can have you and just in case I change my mind, because I DO like you more than a friend but just not enough to date you right now if and until it becomes beneficial to me later."
Fuck all of that. Find a guy that is interested in you enough to not risk letting you go.0
He's almost my age. I was an aimless fuck-up as a kid, and now I'm a successful freelancer with 3 kids, an awesome marriage, and (for now) family breadwinner status.
I'm not bragging, I'm just putting this in perspective. This boy is driftwood. Let him drift on.0
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