I am dating this guy and it is getting serious, the thing is I have a dark past and the thing that I did and what happen to me was really horrible. It still affects me and everyone around me today. I'm scared and nervous to tell him because he explain to me before what kind of person he hates and the thing is I was that person. So I don't know if I should tell him about my past. It was something I did when I was a teenager and there were other things that happen from it too. I just don't want to mess up the relationship or anything.
Most Helpful Guy
Well people will be telling you the tired old "the past is the past and doesn't matter" when in reality that's bull. The past is what made you into you and it MATTERS. Sure, you may not be the same person anymore but that doesn't change the fact that he deserves to know.0
Most Helpful Girl
Honesty is the best policy.. Otherwise be sure your sins will find you out.0