So my boyfriend and i had sex 2 times yesterday, 3 time he didn't really get hard.. so we said it quits.. why?
isn't he attracted to me..
Most Helpful Guy
After orgasm, both men and women experience a resolution stage. At this time, their bodies “recover” from sexual excitement and return to their normal states. For men, the penis becomes flaccid again and he goes through a refractory period.
During the refractory period, a man doesn’t think about sex or get aroused. His body does not respond to sexual stimulation and he is unable to reach orgasm again until the period is over. The length of the refractory period is different for every man. It may take a half hour or more for his body to perform sexually again.
Younger men may need only a few minutes of recovery time, but older men usually have a longer refractory period, sometimes between 12 to 24 hours. For some men, the refractory period can last a few days.
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Most Helpful Girl
Maybe his dick was over worked and he thought too much about it so it added to the stress of not being able to get it yp0