I was talking to this guy I'm messing with and he told me he would date me but he would never be loyal to me because I'm too headstrong. I admit that I can get caught up in my opinion but it's not all the time and it's something I can easily fix. I tried to explain what I thought about it and he said my opinion was irrelevant and I was being headstrong again. I just shut up.
I don't know what to do at this point. I feel like shit and I'm not even worth giving a chance. Is it common for guys to be like that?
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Some people are not compatible relationship wise.
Some people are just neat to have their casual fling and move on to relationships with other people.
If head clashing is starting already and you both aren't even together, maybe a relationship with each other in the future would not be wise.
Personally, I couldn't be with someone who is straight up telling me they'd probably lie or cheat because they couldn't handle my personality.
Why not just break up with me?
That rubs me the wrong way.
He seems as if he couldn't handle a relationship in the first place.
Cheating fixes nothing, it only makes matters worse.
I would personally like a partner that would come to me if I made him feel uncomfortable, not run into the arms of another woman.
I think you're better off giving someone else your attention in all honesty.
Someone that will take you seriously.
There's good and bad in every person.
There's things that need to be fixed in each and every one of us.
No one is perfect.
I think he's just making an excuse not to go further with you, because he still wants to somehow reap the benefits of sleeping with you as long as he can.1