Why is frendship seen like sych a horrible thing? I dont like dating guys i dont know well, and things moved too quickly the last tiime i tried that and i ended it. I dont want to make that mistake again. Especially when i really like the person.
I understand if some people just dont want to wait. Ok thats your choice but be honest about that. dont say its bc you're rejected whjen you're not. Do people even bother asking if it means rejection before running with that assumption?
It really frustrates me that friendship is taken as a euphemism for 'rejection'. Thats so disrespectrful to the sanctity of friendship.
Friendship is a very important step in any relationship for me. im not looking for a fuck toy. I want to get to know him.
Does everyone think friendship is a rejection, or just people who dont really want relationships?
Can i ever tell a guy i like i want to be frends without him assuming im rejecting him cowardly?
Do i have to reassure him i really mean it, and im not implying aything else?
- I dont care what s/he says. If i hear the word friendship i know, its a rejection.Vote A
- Depends on the context. I try to keep an open mind.Vote B
- Other.Vote C
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If you say you want to be friends and just leave it at that then its a rejection.
If you want to be friends first but you're absolutely leaving the door open to a future relationship, basically taking it slow, then you have to say thats what you want.
Without that qualification its a rejection.1
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