Boyfriend pulling my pants down while kissing?

while my boyfriend and I are making out and im straddling him he touches my butt and eventually pulls my pants down and starts squeezing it and breaths heavily and sort of does this slow pelvic thrust he also touches my boobs under my shirt and I rub his you know what. we haven't spoken about sex and we have been going out for more than 3 years. Is he wanting sex or just in the mood
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Most Helpful Guys

  • He's sexually aroused. What he wants to do about it, logically (as opposed to having an urge) i couldn't say.

    How old are you two?

    It sounds like you haven't actually directly gotten each other to orgasm with your hands, which might be the next, lowest risk, step.

  • I think you already know the answer to that. Obviously both, I mean it doesn't take a genius.

Most Helpful Girls

  • He wants to have sex.
    You also don't have to call your breasts and ass "it" and penis "you know what". You've been together for 3 years, he's waited that long to have sex with you, he's worth it. Also wanting to have sex and in the mood are the same thing.

  • Lol you can only say,"his you know what." Your innocence is super cute. ^^

    yeah he's craving to have sex if he's doing that to you. Though never do it unless your on birth control and have condoms.

    • If she is saying "his you know what" then she probably is not ready for the other "you know what."

  • Im sure he wanted sex before you guys ever met and continued to want it afterwards.. does not mean he is expecting it soon, seeing as you have not discussed it.

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  • probably both.

  • He probably wants to have sex but is worried you don't want to so doesn't go any further out of fear of rejection

  • It could be both. He can be in the mood and at the same time wanting sex. it would probably better if you two talk about it first

  • He wants the P.

    • There's one way to put it.

    • Just keepin' it real. @ArchDruidMordred

  • He's just in the move to have sex

  • Yes and yes

  • How are those two things different?

  • He most likely wants sex.

  • 3 years with no sex? how? tell me how?

  • Obviously wants sex and you obviously seem like you want it.

  • He wants ' you know what'

    And you like touching his 'you know what'... have fun, enjoy it. Dont over think so much

  • 3yrs, seriously some guys won't wait for three weeks, 3 months is too much and he went for 3yrs

  • He wants to have sex!

  • he probably is xD just ask him. be safe though.

  • He's wanting sex. Can't you tell? The fact that you are under 18 years of age is a bit alarming.

  • Probably a little of both

  • You need to chill.

  • Wow its 3 years push the bedrooms alrready jeez give the boy sex.

  • Being 'in the mood' and wanting sex are the same thing lol

  • Just in the mood. He probably wanted to be rubbing on your vaginal spot a lot more tho

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