Is giving up on women a good idea?

I've lost faith in finding someone. The only thing I have going for me is that I'm funny. But obviously that's not enough. All of my friends have girlfriends and have left me behind. It's depressing. It's partly my fault. I have asked out very few women. You wouldn't believe how many women told me that they don't date guys of my race. I have even met women that are the same race as I am and they told me the exact same thing. I just can't win. You know what makes it worse? I wasn't even flirting with them. It just came up in a casual conversation. Were they afraid that I was going to flirt with them? Women just seem to want the type of guy that I could never be. Some people say things like "go to the gym" or "get a new haircut". That doesn't fix everybody's problems. My hair sucks. I would be better off going bald. I don't like going to the gym because high school ruined exercise and sports for me. I feel that I should just give up now before I stress myself out even more.


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Most Helpful Girl

  • You're only 25. Twenty freaking FIVE. Relax young one.

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    • lol! yep.

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    • @sean1234 yup lol

      @asker, it sounds like the pressure is more external than internal. Do you, and I mean you not your family, honestly want a relationship right now?

    • Yes and No. Yes: I just feel "out of the loop". All of my friends are in a relationship, so why not me?
      No: I don't think I have the time nor the money to be an a relationship.

Most Helpful Guy

  • You must be Asian. Only Asian men get told by women of their race that they don't date their kind. Women are generally more shallow than men so if you don't plan of working out and getting a new haircut to look better, then your chances won't improve. Gotta show women that you're a catch if you expect to get them. You just wanna be lazy.

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    • I dont know about the Asian thing, but I totally agree.

    • If you saw my hair, you would probably agree with about the whole going bald thing. As for working out, I've grown to hate it (for the most part).

    • A buzz cut looks good on a lot of guys. Especially on those who work out.

What Girls Said 1

  • Dont give up, you may miss the love of your life. But I would say just take it slow. Thats what Im doing. I've become much more selective and staying true to my standards. New year, new you!! :-)

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What Guys Said 9

  • I think you need to take a break from the whole thing. Focus on self-fulfillment, self-improvement. It's something that we all need to do from time to time.

    Also, take a deep breath, man. You're only 25 and stressing about this?

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  • You must be really skinny for people to tell you to work out. How many ladies like guys not like gigantic bodybuilders or anything, but guys with normal big muscles?

    To be honest, weight lifting is not hard, just go ahead and do it. The older you get, the harder it will get.

    Good luck to you!

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    • I'm still single by the way and I'm no where near giving up.

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    • although he always had big legs, so you and him might look the same from the waist up.

    • Yeah. I lost a lot of weight in the 7th grade and it's SLOWLY coming back.

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  • Just take some time off to focus on yourself. I'm at the verge of taking a break right now, but not giving up; that won't get you anywhere.

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  • Yes. You should turn gay out of pure laziness.

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  • Search MGTOW videos on youtube. You are not alone in this.

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  • You could look up MGTOW. It stands for men going their own way. It sounds like something that would interest you. If you look through some of their stuff, at the very least you will realize you are not alone with your feelings.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PMpsva2Atzg

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    • I already know about MGTOW. I've thought about it. But I'm not sure

    • There are a lot of different takes on what it means to be a man going your own way. Guys that are part of MGTOW often still date. You aren't committing to a life decision to never date again. Rather you would just be removing women as your priority, and seeing them as an option. At least that is how I view MGTOW.

  • Don't give up but don't try.

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  • Yes this whole "finding someone" thing is just more feminist propaganda. Listen to what has been said about women since the beginning of time...

    Feminism is a lie

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