I seriously cannot handle high school fuck boys anymore lol. But I have no idea where to look for some nice older men. College? Football games? Bars? Lmao I just have no idea where I'm supposed to find someone that's worth it anymore. I'm almost 18 and I'm done playing games. Just looking for suggestions
Most Helpful Guy
You could go for guys a few years older than yourself. The age factor isn't such a big deal considering you will be 18 soon, and free to make life decisions involving older men.
My advice for the short term would be to scope out guys that take school seriously. Maybe I'm biased, but the level of maturity in a guy can be measured in how much pride he takes in work that isn't revered by his peers, such as studying and developing his core principles in life. It's harder than it seems, because students who get pushed hard by their parents aren't necessarily going to have this quality.
You want guys who display an intrinsic drive for success, because they are willing to cut the bullshit in order to achieve it.3
Most Helpful Girl
Being young you'll constantly run into those "fuck boys", you just have to go out of your element and places where you haven't been before create new friend groups and hang out with other people1