What your own definition of a gold digger?
Most Helpful Guy
Someone (usually a woman) who wants to be in a relationship for the purpose of financial gain. The difference between a gold digger and someone who just wants a partner who wants to make something of themselves, is that a gold digger wants to take short cuts and not put in the same kind of effort as their partner.
If a woman is in college, has plans for a good career, and wants a man who is the same, that's not a gold digger. If a woman wants that same kind of man, but doesn't contribute herself, that's a gold digger. "Sexual favors" don't count as contributing.
If a woman wants to be in a traditional marriage and be a house wife, that's not a gold digger either. She's still contributing in more traditional ways like taking care of the house and finances, raising kids, etc. It's still a partnership, with each contributing.0
Most Helpful Girl
She ain't messing with no broke n***a. Seriously, a gold digger is someone who pursues relationships for capital gain. Perhaps they are completely jaded about real love or just evil. They can be male or female. They are willing to play with someone's emotions for a financial come-up yet are morally bankrupt.0