A guy who i dated briefly and wanted to sleep with me moved away to another state. We are no longer together and talk occasionally, when we do he usually asks if I've dated/ slept with anyone since he moved. I havenent and Im still a virgin. I wanted to lose it to him. I recently started dating another guy, but have come to realise that Im not over the other guy, its only been a few dates and sex has come up.
If I sleep with this new guy will the other guy dislike me?
Dislike isn't the right word... Resent. You wouldn't have done anything wrong, but sometimes even the right decision has consequences for not just yourself but other people. The majority of guys would resent a girl if they did that after intending to have sex with them prior. Only natural.
If he does, that's his problem, but it sounds like you don't want to lose it to this new guy... So I'd wait for someone you care about because if you really care about someone and really are ready to have sex, it wouldn't matter what anyone else thinks
Honestly, don't sleep with the new guy if you're not over the other guy. Realistically, he shouldn't even care since you two aren't together AND he lives in another state, but for your well being, I wouldn't do it because you're only going to feel guilty and upset. Wait until you're over this guy and then you'll be fine and won't feel guilty after you do have sex.