So my friend set me up with a friend of her boyfriend's, he's a little older than me. We've only messaged each other and we're planning on meeting in a few days. I really like his personality and he's definitely not unattractive, but the problem is he drinks and smokes (cigarettes and weed) and I'm not into that kind of thing at all. He also gets violent when he gets angry, like punching walls. I get the feeling he likes me and I like him as well, I just don't know if it's smart to get involved with someone like that. Any advice is appreciated!!
Most Helpful Guy
Nope those things are deal breakers and he'll never change1
Most Helpful Girl
You might think those are small differences but in reality those differences are very important. Especially if he's a pot smoker. I wouldn't take that very lightly especially if you aren't into it. I wouldn't completely write him off though if you haven't met yet. Maybe meet up and get a feel for him first before making decisions.0