"Boyfriend" told me he was married but they are "seperated" but they live in the same house he's been staying in the basement. He told me all this about 5months ago. I asked him why he didn't say it at the beginning. His response was because i didn't think you would've gave me a chance. He kept begging me to stay and give him a chance. We've broken up before and 2 seconds later he'll text me not to leave him and he loves me. We've been talking for 6 1/2 months. Im torn because time has gone by with him holding this secret. If i would've known at the start i would not have givin him a chance avoided having feelings. Should i end it? Or tell him to move out or im done?
Most Helpful Guy
If he is seriously separated then he shouldn't have any issues in moving out. If he does have issues in moving out they aren't separated. Most of the time I would advise against ultimatums, but this situation is different. Yea I would think telling him to move out or its over is clearly in your best interest1
Most Helpful Girl
This is similar to my last friends with benefits he still lives with his wife and in a separate room for the kids, I wanted to date him and realized it would be too much drama, anyway ultimately you have no idea what kind of financial situation he's in and how much time left he had on the mortgage etc. So communicate with him and ask him why he's still staying1
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