I have gone out with this girl twice. On the first date we spoke for 3 hours and her body language was very positive. She offered to drive me back to my car and agreed to meet again. I asked her out again to which she agreed and we went out last night. I thought it went pretty well - dinner there were a few quiet moments but I think maybe because we were eating.
Before this second date she warned me she was sick. But she didn't really seem to be. I walked her back to her car and she said she had a lot of fun and would contact me in the new year to go out again. We hugged for a while and then I looked her in the eyes and went for a kiss - but she turned away. I pecked her cheek and she just said 'im sorry I don't want you to get sick'. I though ok fine, asked her to text me when she got home so I knew she was made it ok. She did text and thanked me again.
I can't help but think that her being sick was an excuse and she actually won't want to see me anymore. If you're really into a guy, even if you are sick, wouldn't you want to have that first kiss? I'm considering moving on from her because of this because I think it's a sign of disinterest regardless of what she said to my face. Or should I try persuing her one more time? I already feel really embarrassed about failing the kiss
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Personally, I have used the sick thing as an excuse before. She may just be being polite and doesn't want to hurt your feelings in any way. There is a possibility that she may be using it as an excuse as she doesn't know how to face you and tell you the truth just yet.
Although, I would just leave it as I think there is also a possibility that she may actually be sick and she may not have seen her refusal of a kiss as being in any way a form of rejection, just her not wanting to give you her illness.
If this situation is bothering you then I think it may be good to have some form of closure, so maybe mention it to her, ask her if she would like to go out again with you. Make her feel comfortable and let her know that there are no hard feelings if the truth is that she isn't interested in you that way. Her rejecting your kiss may just be because she was nervous and she wasn't prepared for you to make a move like that.
Hope I helped :)0