This is a side-step so to speak of a question I asked earlier. Me and my boyfriend both live with our parents, I didn't feel like going out for NYE because I didn't want to drink or deal with drunk people, plus my boyfriend caught a cold. I went and picked up my boyfriend who at the time didn't seem tired or sick really. When I got back to my house around 9ish, he ended up passing out on my couch and literally slept up until midnight where he finally woke up to watch the ball drop and watched a bit of tv with us. Then he went into my room and passed back out. I personally feel like it's really rude to come over to someone's house and sleep the entire time, especially since it was a kind of big holiday and I wanted to spend time with him.
We ended up getting in a fight about it. He says I don't understand since he works and has to be up early and since I'm not working right now I get to sleep in whenever and "don't get it" even though he was off work since 2pm and had plenty of time to sleep after work. He also called me childish and immature for getting mad at him for sleeping. Am I the only one that see's a problem with him having slept the entire time?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes it is a little rude but when you are tired, you will sleep before going to work. Trust me on the tired thing. I had once been operating on a 16h work mode for a week or so. When I got home, I was tired, hungry and in serious need of a shower. I managed to sleep on the door mat for 2 hours before I could wake up and do something else.1
Most Helpful Girl
Yep, you're definitely the problem.
You started off the new year with a fight over insignificant bullshit. Congratulations.
According to you, your need for his attention overrides his natural physical response to exhaustion. How DARE he allow his body to do that! The nerve, I say!
Just because he didn't look tired to you at the time, doesn't mean he wasn't. A sudden onset of fatigue is nothing new if you comprehend the fact that human bodies are ORGANIC and can sometimes be unpredictable.
You knew he had a cold, so when he crashed, it shouldn't have rustled your jimmies so much. People fall asleep when they're TIRED, which is obviously what he was and he directly TOLD you that, but you decided to get your panties in a twist and call him rude over something he had no control over.
He's right, if you're not working, how can you understand when you get to sleep in all the time? So what if he finished at 2pm? I winish work around the same time, but I have to be up at 5 am, so get tired and sleepy quite early in the evening.
In conclusion, yes - you are childish and immature. Way to ruin the start of a new year for him by bitching about something so incredibly trite.3
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