just found out my boyfriend has been seeing another girl. I was the girl he was going to dump her for me. but I found out about her just before we were going to make it official.
he said sorry over the phone. he said one of the two of you are going to get hurt.
he said I deserved better. but that line is useless or means nothing to me. what should I do. he is going to choose her and he already said I'm out of his league. I'm hurt and I need help .
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If he is not smart enough to see that just being with you is enough, then it sounds like you don't need him. I dated a guy that I knew was cheating on me for a yr. All it did to me was make me insecure about myself and it ended up making me feel really bad about who I was. Because what kind of respect could I possibly have about myself knowing he's been with someone else. And even if I were to have had him, the trust between us was already gone, so why, the heartache and constantly wondering if you can trust him isn't worth your tears. There are so many other guys out there that will love you, like you, look at you and think they're lucky, don't waste your time on him. I had to learn the hard way.0