What makes a man want to commit?
Most Helpful Guy
Just tell him you trust him fully and youwish that he would do the same more and that it feels like your both becoming more distant and its stressing you out and its not suppose to be like this.1
Most Helpful Girl
I constantly find myself in a position where men want to commit to me but I don't want to commit to them because if a man cannot match or surpass the love I have established for life then I don't want him. Considering them all and what they have said to me, it's like they are drawn to the fact that I am half stripper/half granny. It's like they find a sense of home, safety, comfort, vulnerability, nourishment within my granny side because it's second nature for me to take care of things attentively and they enjoy that. There's something about encompassing a man with experiences he should have felt as a child. Deep down, I think that's what a lot of men need whether they realize it or not; a sense of refuge in a world that can be such a challenging, evil place. Yet they also go crazy for my stripper me because it keeps them on their toes. They seem to like the combination of granny chill serenity with wild, unpredictable intensity. I don't know if this will help but this is why I think men have been ready and willing to commit themselves to me.
But sometimes, a man has been through so much that it doesn't matter how wonderful you are or how much you have to offer: he will commit in his own time... which may be forever. Some men are worth the wait! You must be patient. A lot of the best things are slow. Don't give him an ultimatum or threaten to walk away if he doesn't commit because that will just make you look like an ass and you will have the title by default, not because you earned it.2