I met this girl, she is 21 and probably the most relatable, genuine, and fun to talk to girl I have ever met. She is everything I want in a girl, she isn't gorgeous but she is still good looking (I think). I was talking to her last night and she was telling me that she has never had a boyfriend, and I just found that shocking because I have basically liked her from the minute I met her. I still remember that night clear as day, within 5 minutes of talking to her I had fallen for her, and over a year and a half later I still think about her almost every day, thats how much she has impacted me. I only see her once every couple months, but I still think about her constantly. Anyway, I got to see her yesterday, and we hung out for most of the day. When I was asking her about her past boyfriends (or lack thereof), she was getting really self conscious and upset and I just felt so bad for her because I like her more then any other girl, and yet for reasons beyond our control I can't date her, I still want her to be happy though and want to see her get what she deserves, which is an awesome boyfriend. What would she do to not have guys interested in her? Why would an otherwise awesome girl, never have a boyfriend? What is the deal here?
Most Helpful Girl
well im like her but im 19.
Most of girls have guys around them but their searching for desent guy who would want to know her and not just fuck her.
I can speak for myself but i think that it's same situation with her.
1) girls can get hurt by boys in young age when you start those things and you just get afraid of realtionship and you don't trust guys (like me)
2) if he's average or pretty guys usually come to girls to hook up.. they buy ypu drink until you get drunk and use you (i hate it about boys more then anything)
3) he didn't have interest in guys before
4) she didn't go out so she didn't meet guys much
it can be anything.. everyone have their own past and someting that they carry
and i think that most happens to girls like us is SHAME.. trust me i usually run away because i'm asshamed and i don't want hos to think that im weirdo and stuff.. im scared of guys reaction and i run from it till i was 17 ...0
Most Helpful Guy
some at that age busy with things like school , work etc and don't really put enough effort into dating to find someone. there is a lot of good looking descent 21 year old girls who don't have a serious boyfriend yet , that's not really an odd age to be single0