am i wrong? but in other races culture usually family and being generous is a serious trait and with white people... they always seem so uptight and like they dont want to something for someone without getting something back? I've especially noticed that with dating... the guys who aren't white are usually very generous and the ones that are white seem greedy and cold.. why?
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I would agree that western culture (which probably is characterized by your racial generalization, which I understand) is very individualistic. Very capitalistic-Darwinian flavor to it, where you just have to be out for your own and you just do what is best for you and your family and fuck everyone else.
I feel that is how society in the US is setup often times so that's the rules you almost are forced to play by unfortunately. It is something important to stop and be altruistic and help others though. Something we all would do well remembering more often I think.0
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Why do I feel like this site has turned into a "bash on white people" group? I just want to point out that I am a white female who has dated a selection of other races. I have dated black men, Puerto Rican men, native American men, and lastly, white men.
Weirdly enough in my dating experience I have found that your statement is not factual at all. The two Puerto Rican men I dated wanted me to wait hand and foot on them. I had to do whatever they asked of me and if not, I was yelled at and abused.
The three black men I dated all treated me like I was a "sugah mama". I brought home the money and they made out like they were doing me a huge favor by buying expensive things for me WITH MY MONEY.
The Native American man that I dated had an anger issue the size of my ass, which is not small by the way and I felt threatened and scared almost on a daily basis.
And the white men I have dated (minus 1) treated me like I was actually human. They didn't expect me to do absolutely everything for them. They worked just as much as I did. They brought me out on dates which the other men never did. They treated me like a woman and not like some eye candy sex meal.
So your statement is truly not relevant for most. There are fuck ups in every single nationality pool. To say that white people are the only ones who are fucked up is simply a extremely racist statement.4